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Ask AI chatbots to pick a 17th birthday gift for a teen

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ChatGPT, Copilot and Claude all failed Stephen Johnson's 17th birthday gift test, from a hunting knife to a typewriter.

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Before you start, ask me 1–3 short questions about the details below and wait for my answers. Once I've answered, confirm the plan in one line and run the whole task start to finish.

Goal: Help me brainstorm birthday gift ideas for a specific person, and check them against what that person actually likes.

Questions to ask me first:
- Who is the gift for, and how old are they?
- What do they spend their free time on right now, and what do they already own?
- What's your budget, and is there anything they've said they don't want?

Inputs (fill in or confirm):
- Person and age: [PERSON / AGE]
- Current hobbies, apps, music and favorite brands: [INTERESTS]
- Things they already have or dislike: [AVOID]
- Budget: [BUDGET]
- Gifts that went over well before: [PAST HITS]

Rules:
- Ask me follow-up questions before suggesting anything.
- Give 8 to 10 ideas tied to specific interests I listed, and say which interest each one matches.
- Skip weapons, novelty survival kits and anything based on age or gender stereotypes.
- Include at least two experience or subscription ideas, not just objects.
- Don't link to products; describe them so I can shop myself.

Checkpoint: After your first 5 ideas, ask me which are closest so you can refine the rest.

If you get stuck: If you don't know enough about the person, ask; don't fill gaps with generic gifts.

Verify before you finish: Check each idea against the things they already have or dislike.

Output: A short list grouped by price, with one line on why each fits.

Done when: I have 2 or 3 ideas I'm confident the person would actually like.

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Can you help me choose the perfect gift for my son’s 17th birthday?

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ChatGPTCopilotClaude

Outcome

Stephen Johnson of Lifehacker asked several chatbots for a 17th birthday gift for a son. ChatGPT's list was generic, and its only specific idea, vinyl records of hip-hop artists, got a scoff from the son: "It's 2024. Who has a record player?" Johnson rated it 3 out of 5. Microsoft Copilot didn't ask a single question about the teen and linked a box of survivalist tools from Temu, then a "Gentleman's Gasher" hunting knife after Johnson asked it to try again, earning 1 out of 5. Claude's first list was nearly as generic as ChatGPT's. After Johnson spent hours describing the family and their relationship, Claude suggested a vintage typewriter, which the son called "the worst present you could possibly get me," also 1 out of 5. Johnson's conclusion was not to use AI to pick presents.

Evidence: Article or interviewA newsletter, journalist or interview account of what happened.

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FailureThe source says the AI did not get the job done.

What went wrong: None of the chatbots found a gift the teen liked: the ideas were generic, wildly off-target or rejected outright.

Source

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by Stephen Johnson (Lifehacker)
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https://au.lifehacker.com/entertainment/11011/opinion/i-asked-ai-chatbots-for-gift-recommendations-and-it-went-horribly

Context: This was a 2024 test with the tools of that time. The article also tried Qualified's Piper, which is not covered here.

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